Jealous of Pregnant Women? Read This

Why Seeing Other Pregnant Women Hurts (And What It Really Means)

Have you ever felt an emotional gut punch when someone announces their pregnancy? You smile, congratulate them, but inside, there’s a sinking feeling—“Why not me?” “What am I doing wrong?”

If you’ve experienced this, know that you are not alone. But what you may not realize is that jealousy is more than just an emotion—it’s an energetic block that could be keeping you from stepping into the vibration of motherhood.

When you focus on what others have that you don’t, you send a subconscious message to your body and the universe that pregnancy is separate from you. But the truth is, another woman’s pregnancy has nothing to do with yours. There is no limited supply of babies or fertility over 40. Your spirit baby is waiting for you, but your energy has to be open to receiving them.

How Jealousy Can Block Your Fertility Over 40

Emotions carry energy. Studies in quantum physics and neuroscience show that everything—our bodies, our thoughts, and even our emotions—vibrate at different frequencies.

• Love, trust, and joy? High frequency.
• Fear, frustration, and resentment? Low frequency.

Now, imagine the energy of your spirit baby—they exist in a state of love and divine timing. But if your energy is locked in frustration, fear, or jealousy, you’re on a different frequency. It’s like trying to tune into a radio station, but being on the wrong channel.

This is why some women conceive when they “stop trying” or when they surrender into trust. Their energy shifts from desperation to alignment—from resistance to receptivity.

The Spirit Baby Connection: Becoming a Match for Pregnancy

Your spirit baby connection is always present, but the way you engage with it affects how soon your baby comes through.

When you see someone else’s pregnancy as a sign of what’s possible for you, rather than proof of your own lack, you shift your mindset from scarcity to abundance.

Try this simple reframe:

Instead of thinking, “Why them and not me?”
Shift to “Their pregnancy is a reminder that motherhood is in my energy field. My time is coming.”

Your spirit baby is drawn to joy, peace, and trust. When you start embodying those emotions now, you become a vibrational match for conception.

3 Ways to Shift Your Energy and Align with Your Fertility

If jealousy or sadness is weighing on you, here are three powerful steps to move from frustration to trust:

1. Recognize That Jealousy is a Signal, Not a Truth

Jealousy doesn’t mean you’re failing. It simply means there’s a part of you that desires motherhood deeply. Instead of pushing that feeling away, use it as information:

• What does this feeling tell you about what you want?
• How can you use it as motivation to deepen your trust?

2. Feel the Emotions of Pregnancy Now

Most women think, “I’ll be happy when I get pregnant.” But that keeps you in a state of waiting.

Instead, ask yourself:

• What would it feel like to be pregnant right now?
• How can I embody that joy, peace, and excitement today?

The more you can live in the emotions of pregnancy before it happens, the faster you align with it.

3. Strengthen Your Spirit Baby Connection

Your baby is already connected to you on a soul level. Start communicating with them:

• Write letters to your spirit baby.
• Visualize holding them in your arms.
• Speak words of trust: “I know you are coming in divine timing.”

When you move from desperation to devotion, from chasing to allowing, everything shifts.

Why Your Fertility Over 40 Is Not on a Fixed Decline

One of the biggest myths about fertility over 40 is that it’s all downhill. But here’s the truth:

🧬 Your body is constantly regenerating. Your eggs are renewing every 90–120 days.
🌿 Your nervous system, stress levels, and mindset directly impact your fertility.
💫 Women conceive over 40 all the time when they shift into trust and alignment.

So instead of focusing on what’s running out, focus on what’s still possible.

Final Thoughts

Your fertility journey is sacred, and the Starter Pack is here to guide you with intention, clarity, and deep alignment. This isn’t just about checklists and to-dos—it’s about stepping into your power, trusting your body, and creating the conditions for new life to flourish.

Take what resonates, explore with an open heart, and know that you are never alone in this process. The wisdom, the support, and the possibility are already within you. This is your time to embrace it.

Ready to take the next step? Dive into your Starter Pack and begin aligning your mind, body, and spirit for the miracle ahead. 💫